Jessie brings out the best in me......I'm sure I haven't experienced the absolute best in me quite yet though. That will come in time, when we're together. Ping made me feel like a failure, Jessie makes me feel like a success even though I have a crap job. We've been talking and making plans for our future. She has family in the states. New York and California. I want her to be as happy as I can make her so I've agreed to move to the States with her in the future. Our simplified goals are; Live together in Guangzhou for 3 years or so, move to my city of Halifax and live there for about 2 years and then move to California. So......Arnold.....it's very possible we'll be neighbours. :icon_cheesygrin: Oh Arnold, are you here? *poke*. haha. So anyway, I very much hope these plans can become reality.