Matt I am a widower. It is not wrong at all for you to say she deserves a little good fortune in her life. I feel I deserve some good fortune in my life and that I found it in the lady I have met. She does deserve it and hopefully you can bring some of that to her. The only caution I would give you is to make sure she is well through the grieving process. The time frame is different for everyone. For me, if I had tried to even date anyone in the 1st two years, well it would have been a disaster I'm sure. I was definately not ready. Fortunately at the right time, I got to know this lady.