For my two bobs worth I'll say the survey was a good idea and that without Chnlove I would never have met my wife, having said that, there are thing i would do different if i had to go through it again, for instance, i would have done my research better, if i had known about this site it would have saved me time and money. Chnlove is a great place to start but in my opinion the sooner you use the likes of QQ the better, there is no doubt that communicating directly with a woman is far more personal than using someone else's words.
Cheers
Leeroy