David,
We have similar wives. Fiona is 42 but acts more like a teenager. She can look elegant but she prefers to kick around in blue jeans and a baseball cap. When I set out on my quest for a wife I specified between ages 40 and 50. I met several women, 40 to 46 and all were perfect ladies. They dressed in business suits or a dress. They appeared to be just what they are, middle aged moms. And they were on their best behavior. Perhaps I didn’t stay long enough for them to feel comfortable and let their hair down but Fiona didn’t care. She was funny, playful and joking from the beginning. She loves to laugh and tease and she is borderline crazy. Such a difference from the ones that I had met before. There must be others out there like her.
Willy, I agree women in this age group are coming into their peak sexually. I am far from a super stud. But Fiona didn’t go out on the hunt for a stud. She could have found any number of volunteers for that. As with all the women I met, she went looking for a good stable husband. I am happy on both counts. She is young and frisky enough to keep me totally interested and she is happy that she got a good combination of both. I have reached my peak and she knows it. (I think it was part of her plan) She is young enough to take good care of me and I’m not likely to go roaming looking for more. She’s pretty clever I think.
But back to the original question. I think if a younger fellow is comfortable with an older woman on his arm then he can find a good match. BUT what I said before still applies. If the woman is looking for a long term partner, ( Spouse). Then she is going to scrutinize the younger man more closely because of the reputation of younger men playing the field and chasing the younger girls. And a lot of the women have been burned by their ex-husband doing just that.
And of course what you said is true. If she is just looking for a fling then it really doesn’t matter as long as he can afford to come to China and he is not a deadbeat. She will be delighted to have you around for a while.