Well, I got married on my first trip, as did another former member, whom I consider a good friend. Both of us had our marriages go south. His was ended by his wife...he had married the same day he stepped off the plane. He had never met her on web camera, but had spent many months getting to know her. In my situation, I ended mine, after she lived here for 3 months...here, being Canada. We had gotten married on the first trip. We had done the web cam, emails, MSN, QQ, phone calls, you name it.
I am not telling you this, to tell you what to do. That choice is yours. And its not for me, or anyone else to tell you what to do. But just be aware that things are different in face to face, than they are in the cyber world of emails and web cams.