There is nothing sure in this world but death and taxes. I say, live you life with an open mind and open eyes. Take chances, lay your heart out on the table. Sure, sometimes you watch it get knocked on the floor. There are no guarantees in life. But, if you ask the tough questions, listen closely to the answers and make decisions as best you can, at the end of the day, it's more important how you feel about yourself than what you're left with. We all want to be loved, even the ladies that bail the second life gets real.
I agree with Willy, 80 grand?!? Two tries and then he hires a lawyer? What did he spend his money on?