I like to share one of my Wife's letter's here , not only for the newbee's but all . This letter was written on Feb. 08 '08 after knowing Qing for only a little over two month's . To show how much I procressed through writing only and including the Parent's in all . Which is so important , to build a happy and forward moving relationship with a chinese Lady .
My dearest Arnold ,nong hao ,
I have seen the beatuiful photos and snowman¡¯s brother .it¡¯s very clean after the rain in Palmdale .when Cher love Arnold who is from Palmdale ,it¡¯s also cher¡¯s becautiful Rainbow in my life .
My darling ,my Mom has received my Arnold¡¯s card .Mom can¡¯t believe her own eyes that her foreign son-in law could write so beatuiful characters .She loves you from her bottom of her heart .xiaxia nong !Maybe it delays for the airflight ,because of chinese snow and rain recently but it can¡¯t effect the happiness you give to my mom¡¯s birthday .Cher is very happy to know that Mom loves you very much .***I LOVE YOU *** Thanks for all the things you do for me .it snows several times these days and has the thick snow now .it¡¯s very cold here .we stay at home to celebrate mom¡¯s birthday and have the birthday dinner together .:-)
Yes ,after cher become the mother and begin to understand the love from mother to the own child .whenever how old I am ,I am still her child in her eyes .in my eyes ,tianchi is also be my little child forever whenever he grows up .
Arnold ,the translator told me today that she will have the spring festival off from 6th to 8th .she will have 3 days¡¯off .so darling ,please remember that Cher love you all the time .
In reference to the marriage registering ,thanks for you to enquire them carfully .your cher also knows that the different countires¡¯marriage office is at Shanghai Everbright convention and exhib.center ,3rd Floor .i can know the newspaper which we need .Maybe we could manage some procedure in May .
If 12 Girls Band come to our wedding ,the beatuiful bride will thanks them in person .it¡¯s them make my dearest Arnold to know Shanghai and let us meet each other .
I am very happy to hear that your uncle could be our priest .08-08-08 it¡¯s really very exciting .it¡¯s the same day for our wedding and the Beijing Olympic Games .Thanks my Bridegroom has selected this lucky day .it indicates our future life will accompany the spiriture of Olympic Games and we will be very happy
I have seen my Arnold¡¯s happy smile already ,because your cher is giving the deepest kisses to you now .,
In reference to ***and 8,I think our love will connected with the luck all the time .because our love is made in heaven .
I am looking forward to hear your childrenhood¡¯story .but I promise that I will never spank you except that you do other bad things .haha¡
Darling ,I don¡¯t know much about American football .in Japan ,I know many physical races which Gaints such as horse race ,gig and so on
My dearest Arnold ,Tianchi has some children whose age is the same to play together with him but he still want me to take him to the public .During the holliday ,I think I will be a little tired .Thanks for you supporting my decision on my work .i think I will do the right decision .:-)
I will talking with my Arnold on the phone tomorrow .darling ,could you speak a little slowly .because I don¡¯t have the electronic translator and I can¡¯t win you .:-)
I am looking forward to hearing your voice soon
***I LOVE YOU ,MY ARNOLD***
***CHER***
This was also a day before our first phone call together , like I have said before , Qing ( Cher ) called me first .