Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.

[Robertt S]

Gosh, I feel terrible for this lady. I have known her for two years and she finally tied the knot and married an American man. Looked like her dreams were coming true. Then I noticed her profile on CLL changed  to  looking for a husband. I thought maybe it didnt work out and she got divorced...Well he up and died.

"reply    Grace   oh, gerry.so nice to get your msg. Ill log on qq later. How are you now?
gerry,thank your care. My exhusband was dead on May ,cuz of cancer. So have to find lover again.    2012-07-17 02:19:35"
 
Sounds like a husband is more important to her than a VISA but I wanted to know a little more before I chat with here this evening.
Anyone know if there are widow's benefits that she could use if she wants to go to the USA without a husband?

Gerry,
    I high-lighted the parts of this PDF document that would pertain to your friends situation. You got my e-mail if you have any questions.

[Robertt S]

  Hello all,
   I have spent the week-end making the site more user friendly for our Chinese members. I also added some upcoming holidays and events. I added Chinese translations to the forum section headers, hopefully this will make it easier for our Chinese members to understand the topic content in each section and begin posting in our forums. As usual, joining and using the site is FREE. I also added a section in the relationship section where you can post a question to be answered by a traditional woman. She can give advice concerning gifts, traditions, customs, and other details that may help keep your foot out of your mouth and help make your relationship a success.
 For those members who have not visited the site for awhile, now would be a good time to check up on us and check your mail also. If you have forgotten your password, we have password recovery available. If you used a QQ e-mail address when you joined you will not receive any members messages or communications from the site because QQ blocks our mail server.   Regards, Robert

http://www.xingfulove.com

[Pineau]

I have not been there in a while. I need to get over and take a look. I have sent som reall y nice and sincere ladies there but I o have not found any Ladies to send over their lately. Seems they all  fail my gold-digger/green card seeker screen  or they figure out what I am up to and run away pissed off.

[Robertt S]

I have not been there in a while. I need to get over and take a look. I have sent som reall y nice and sincere ladies there but I o have not found any Ladies to send over their lately. Seems they all  fail my gold-digger/green card seeker screen  or they figure out what I am up to and run away pissed off.

I appreciate you giving the ladies my site address. I would have more members now, but I too have a screening process for both men and women.I have rejected way more applications than I have approved. If they manage to get through the initial screening then they usually leave on their own after discovering that all members personal contact information is not published in their profiles, they have to contact the member through the site messaging system initially and ask for that info. I do check IP's against profiles and I also have a photograph verification system available! If you have a photograph you want verified just request it on your photo page and I will start the verification process. If you want to verify another members photo just have them contact me to verify their photo. All verified photos have my profile avatar ( red Chinese ox symbol ) displayed on the photo. If the ladies have problems joining they can contact me using the Contact link on the website.                                       Regards, Robert

[lfputman3]

Just thought I'd let it be known, I've given Robert S's webpage addy to my wife, for her friends that keep asking for help finding a husband. As soon as I'm back, I'll hand it to a few guys I know. I've also got a class reunion this fall (holy $h*tb*lls, 20 years?). Two of my old friends are still single, like I was earlier this year. Plus of course, a few of the old friends are now divorced. I know two of the guys would greatly benefit from a Chinese wife. One has four whoring sisters that have frightened away any perspective women, and like Robert, he seems to think boats are supposed to go underwater...
The other that I know could benefit, he works at a power plant, it's the American equivalent of the Chinese powerstations in Handan, ie, two different 'generators' and as soon as women find out he works there, they run. even though he works in the booth at the coal side of the facility.

And here, we live less than a mile from a double-three tower unit. That would be coal and the popular thing in this part of China (glow in the dark). I figure I lived in Savannah for a couple years, the river and the beach were enough to give me any radiation poisoning I have.

Lloyd

[Robertt S]

     P.S. Thanks for passing on the dating site info, membership is beginning to pick up some. I still have to weed the scammers and spammers out, But that only makes for a better site so it is worth the time and effort. If anyone has a problem joining they can send me a message using the contact link on the site.! I did seven patrols on one of the old 640 class boats during the Cold War and I only glow when exposed to blacklights!

[Pineau]

Robert. I try to pre-screen before I give out your website address. I don't have it posted anywhere in public. I only give the address out when I have convinced myself that the lady is not a scammer, spammer or home-wrecker.  Lately, most have been looking for a green card and willing to cross some bounds to get it.

[Robertt S]

Robert. I try to pre-screen before I give out your website address. I don't have it posted anywhere in public. I only give the address out when I have convinced myself that the lady is not a scammer, spammer or home-wrecker.  Lately, most have been looking for a green card and willing to cross some bounds to get it.

Thanks Gerry,
     You can send some more ladies anytime you want to, right now the site is running about 2 men or more to every woman on the site. I have discovered a very interesting fact concerning China, since I started my site. I never knew there was so many red-headed, 4'-7" African- American women from Botswana of the Catholic faith living in Mainland China! They especially like to settle in the Anhui area.

[Pineau]

Now thats funny. Speak of the devil.  I will PM you.

[Pineau]

Weather you are a member here or a casual browser I suggest that you become a registered member both here and at Robertt's dating website.

of the  ladies i meet, I send the best ones to Xingfulove to register.

[Pineau]

I would like to introduce Lisa.
She is a lovely 45 year old university teacher in Guangdong. Her daughter is 20 and attends university.

She owns two properties in Guanhdong. She is not looking for a greencard or a free ride. She sincerely wants someone to be her companion for the rest of her life.

She walks and swims daily. She ran the 100 meter and came in first place in the university track meet.

She swims every day and can do 800 meters in breast stroke. She is healthy and eats right and is a very good cook.

She is slim trim and looks good in a bathing suit and even better in an evening gown. You would certainly be the envy of your friends with her on your arm.

Well educated and speaks near perfect English and with slight British accent.

She is a techno -geek and owns the latest toys. .  i pad, i phone,desk top computer. And she knows how to use them. She knows and understands computer jargon and is a very capable computer super user.

I know Lisa well and have spent many hours talking to her about life, love, family. I know her to be truly seeking someone to love and expecting only reciprocal love in return.

I hope to help her find a well mannered decent men that has no motives other than marriage.  I have her QQ number. I asked her bluntly is she ready to abandon China, her career and her pension. The answer is yes for the right man.

I include her recent photos. I know they are recent and NOT PHOTOSHOPPED.. because I took them myself last month.

[JohnB]

Gerry, I compliment your choice of women. Lisa, in all respects, appears to be the perfect woman for some lucky man. I do not
think she will be single for long. I hope she chooses well. She deserves the best.
By the way, Lisa has great looking legs. I like!

[Pineau]

I will pass on your compliment about her legs.  Don't be fooled by great looks. She took me climbing and I gave out half way but she was still ready to go on to the top of the mountain.

I hope she chooses well also. There are so many assholes out there looking to score with a Chinese woman. She is pretty clever but when in doubt she will share the bullshit sweet talk that she just received from some predator.  She deserves the better than the dating websites have to offer and she does not like Chinese men. That is why I have introduced her here.

[Arnold]

Gerry you are a good Man and it is a great feeling when someone like Lisa trust you in a way... that is life-changing for her. In a way (going what we have now) we are almost opplicated to find equally good Men for the Women-Friends we have made on are Journey. "Pay it back" with love! It almost makes you feel kind of quilty not being able to find someone good for them (like my Lily), it's saddens me. All we can do is try though, they know it and appreciate every minute of our time.
Good luck Gerry, hope she'll be taken off her feet soon... and I mean that in a good way of course!

[Robertt S]

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