Single Chinese Girls looking for husbands.

[Robertt S]

I have finished all the site updates with the exception of the chat translator. I plan to have that completed sometime next week. As you have noticed all previous profiles were lost during the upgrade, so anyone who wants to renew their membership are more than welcome to. To renew your membership just resubmit your profile information again using the join page. I am hoping to make this site a trustworthy place for members to post their profiles and search for others with shared interests. Please upload a photograph with your profile and use a good e-mail address because ALL profiles are reviewed! If you can not upload a photograph then send it to me and I will upload it for you. I have also added new site languages to make the site user friendly! I want to wish everyone here a Happy Chinese New Year also.  Regards, Robertt

http://www.xingfulove.com

[Robertt S]

Everything is up and running at the site again. I lost all profiles during the recent site upgrade, so if you still wish to use the site please complete the registration process again. I am giving a free 6 month Gold membership to the first 100 people who join the site and complete all the required steps of registration. The registration process includes completing the e-mail verification, up-loading and verifying a profile photograph. I am trying to build a reputable and trustworthy site so that is why I am going through all the added steps of verifying profiles. If you do not know how to upload a photograph or do not understand the verification process you can pm me here or on the site for assistance. You will most likely notice the small number of female profiles at this time, but I am in the process of actively recruiting female members from China and other countries. The chat translator has also been upgraded and has many new features for your convenience. Here is the site address again in case you need it  http://www.xingfulove.com

Regards, Robertt

[Pineau]

I am encourage and happy about the guy that step up and snagged one of the best ladies in China.  (you know who you are)


A couple of ladies still available....

Vivian. She is 46 and lives in Dalian. She has a daughter in the University. Very friendly and sincere. Needs to work on her English. She understands some Japanese. I have known her since Sept 2010. She is very sweet and sincere. 
Her QQ is 442025309. she is quiet and reserved at first and will only open up after she trust you. She is not on any of the dating websites and can only be reached through QQ.

Rachael. She is 44 and lives in Wuhan. She also has a grown daughter.  She operates her own business in Wuhan. (women's clothes)
Her English is ok but need some work. It is much improved since I first met her.  She recently converted to Christianity.
Her QQ is  68347654 

If you have been scammed, lied to or you just scared to take the first step. I personal vouch for both of these women. They are my personal friends for over two years.

[RobertBfrom aust]

Any Aussie guys living in " The most liveable city [ Melbourne ]" and looking for a lovely Chinese partner already living in this city , give me a PM as I have a number of eligible ladies here regards Sujuan and Robert .

[Pineau]

Let me reiterate these too ladies are Personal close friends of mine. That is half of the battle of avoiding scams and unscrupulous ladies.

Case in point. I am talking to (more like avoiding) a lady on QQ for a couple of months. She knows I am married. but tonight she invited me to come live with here NOW in Zhuhai. Now some people think that would be awesome to have a wife and a girlfriend but what does that say about the ladies character. She is willing to wreck a marriage to get what she wants. I find this is the case with some of the women I talk to. It is a means to an end I suppose. I really can't blame them for trying but it is just not my cup of tea.  If you are really in the mood for love then you can get blindsided very easily Keep your eyes wide open all the time.

[JohnB]

course of demand should dictate your course in action!

http://www.chinadaily.com.cn/china/2013-04/19/content_16422895.htm
Romance proves elusive for manyUpdated: 2013-04-19 15:02 By Wu Ni in Shanghai ( chinadaily.com.cn)
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Just 20 percent of the 1.8 million single men and women who have registered at Shanghai's official matchmaking agencies have found the right person to tie the knot with.
Differences in income and education were some of the obstacles hampering the quest to find a suitable partner for life, the association overseeing the agencies said on Thursday.
Zhou Juemin, director of the city's matchmaking association, told the Shanghai Morning Post that the city is facing a "third wave" of singles, which started in 2007 and is forecast to last three to five years.
The biggest challenge is that these single men and women are difficult to match. The women will not compromise their expectations for an ideal husband, while most single men, who have been concentrating on their careers up to the age of 35 to 40, prefer women around 25, Zhou said.
Currently, the ratio of single men to single women is about 1 to 4 in Shanghai. Most of the singles are women aged from 30 to 35, according to the association.

[Willy The Londoner]

I am encourage and happy about the guy that step up and snagged one of the best ladies in China.  (you know who you are)

Gerry

If this is the lady I think it is then when I spoke with her earlier today she was so happy that the introduction seems to have paid off and she is looking forward to July.

If it is not her then that is two you have help bring forth coming happiness too.

Willy

[Pineau]

You're right Willy. It is the same woman. She is very excited and it appears he is too. I am hands off at the moment cause I don't want to jinx anything. But I have watched it develop and it makes me feel good to the bone.

 The other two ladies, I guess are being passed over because of their English skills. But they have improved and they are wonderful ladies. Professional, mature with grown children in the university.

I know another Lisa that will knock your socks off. I have known her for quite a while and her mother was a friend of Fiona's mother before she died. She Has been teetering back and forth between a new marriage with a westerner and just staying alone. I can tell she is sad and lonely and is on the verge of becoming available for dating. 
She is thin and fit and rides bikes for exercise. (not just peddle around the block. She is into long distance all day events. )
I would post her photo but she would torture me if I did it without her permission.

[IrishGuy65]

I would like to introduce Lisa.
She is a lovely 45 year old university teacher in Guangdong. Her daughter is 20 and attends university.

She owns two properties in Guanhdong. She is not looking for a greencard or a free ride. She sincerely wants someone to be her companion for the rest of her life.

She walks and swims daily. She ran the 100 meter and came in first place in the university track meet.

She swims every day and can do 800 meters in breast stroke. She is healthy and eats right and is a very good cook.

She is slim trim and looks good in a bathing suit and even better in an evening gown. You would certainly be the envy of your friends with her on your arm.

Well educated and speaks near perfect English and with slight British accent.

She is a techno -geek and owns the latest toys. .  i pad, i phone,desk top computer. And she knows how to use them. She knows and understands computer jargon and is a very capable computer super user.

I know Lisa well and have spent many hours talking to her about life, love, family. I know her to be truly seeking someone to love and expecting only reciprocal love in return.

I hope to help her find a well mannered decent men that has no motives other than marriage.  I have her QQ number. I asked her bluntly is she ready to abandon China, her career and her pension. The answer is yes for the right man.

I include her recent photos. I know they are recent and NOT PHOTOSHOPPED.. because I took them myself last month.

I have bad news for everyone... Lisa is off the market.  But listen to Gerry about these other available girls... He was right on abut Lisa.

[Pineau]

Pay it back with love he said.
Well Congratulations to both of you. So very happy for you and her.

My goal:

 I hope to help her find a well mannered decent men that has no motives other than marriage.  I have her QQ number. I asked her bluntly is she ready to abandon China, her career and her pension. The answer is yes for the right man.
IG.... I guess your the right man.

 The forum members got you this far, Now the real work begins. 

Deep breath, sigh, Boy I feel good.

[Pineau]

more good news. I got a message on QQ a few minutes ago. It's from one of the ladies I met last year, advised  and tried to steer towards finding a good husband. You know the speech.  Asshole and deadbeats and horny scam artists.

She was very happy and wanted me to look at her photos.

Gerry.I am lily.do you still remember me ?I get married with my husband on 9.9 this month. I put pictures on my QQ zqone.Qzqone code "----" .photo code is "--" ...........if you have free time.please take a look.have nice day .take good care .my firend.

So I did take a look. They make a very handsome couple. So another success of sorts.  (he is from the UK)

[Willy The Londoner]

So I did take a look. They make a very handsome couple. So another success of sorts.  (he is from the UK)

Well she definately made the right choice going for a Brit.

Mind you it is nice to see it wherever he is from. 

That's two successes out of two so far Gerry.

Willy

[Pineau]

I am talking with a lady now. She has messaged me several times and she thinks that the dating website are full of robbers and scams and horny old men.  Then she asked me what I thought the success rate is at those sites and is she just wasting her time. Gosh. I didn't have an answer. (very unusual)  so here I am am asking the question to the forum.

How many of you found your wives on a dating/marriage website. 
How many times were you scammed or attempts made?

Please respond with the yes-no, found a wife question and if yes, the the name of the website.

I will wait a week or so before making a tally.

Is there some automatic polling/ tally software built into this software. I thought there was.

I would like to add that although CLL and CLM seem to be the favorites of most men, I have found that more and more  the "ladies" on CLL are turning out to be scammers or green card diggers. Its a big investment of time to check them for sincerity only to find out what they are really after. Its sad but I think I will abandon helping ladies there and let my membership expire. CLM still seems to have a fair amount of women sincerely looking for a partner for life.

[RobertBfrom aust]

Gerry I was found on QQ , so that might upset your count , regards Robert .

[Pineau]

Thanks maxx. I think this will work.
one suggestion (because I am lazy) would be to list the top ten dating/marriage sites. But as is.. it will do just fine.

I met Fiona on Chinalovematch.