Ok, the dust has settled. I think it is safe to come out again.
Allow me to introduce Mandy. I have known her since about May 2012. She lives in Guangzhou. I knew her while I was living there but we I never got a chance to meet in person. We are just QQ buddies.
She is 41 years old and will be 42 in July. She weighs 105 pounds and is 5 ft 3 tall.
She was born and raised in Guangzhou and all her family lives there.
Her husband passed away from liver cancer 4 years ago. She has been single since then.
She has a 16 year old son of who she is very proud. He is in high school and very good at mathematics, physics and chemistry. When I first met her she was an elementary school teacher but now she is the school principle. It is a steady job and good income. This is her primary worry ( Finding a job in a foreign country). She has been alone for 4 years and thinks it is time to find a husband. She, like many of my friends have observed the marriage of my wife an I. She wants to marry a western man.
She says her English in no-good but with the help of a translation software we have had no problems communicating at all.
I have her contact information and will give it to registered members of good standing. (That means... you have been a member for a while, you have made contributions to the forum, and your profile is complete and accurate.) She is looking for someone between 48 and 55 but I guess the is some leeway there.