Hellerjk , it does not matter , how many you receive at the beginning . It's total up to you to choose one that is to your best interest and then , hide your Profile . So no more are coming in to confuse you . Hiding your Profile , will let the Lady you want to write to , know that you are only interested in Her . Now if you are planning to write more then one , which is up to you of course , but make sure they are not from the same Agency , because they might know each other . Not good . Good Luck !