Cheer up Gautam , hey not all is lost yet . Just to remind you , my wife was the fourth Lady , before finding the right one . You have to stay positive through this process at all times . Those Lady's can sence ( the good ones ) your feeling in your letter's . I myself was ready to give up after the first one , mind you . But she did not let me quit ... yes , She did not let me quit and that is what she told me , to stay positive and continue writing the same lovely letter's , I have written to her . She had already a Boyfriend at the time and she told me in a nice way , that she can only give her Heart to one , but it was the wrong one . It did not work out between the two . Now that is my chinese Sister Min in Baoding . I have two Sister's that are just the most wonderful Person's you ever want to meet . Gautam , how old are you and what are your looking for age wise ? One is 41 and the other is 49 . Let me know . With these two you will not get anything but the best , trust me on that .