We all know this stuff,the nets full of it. One of the aims of this site is to give direction to other members on how to avoid these situations and also support and comfort. To fill the pages with this,well what does it achieve?? Just fills peoples heads with doubt and worry.
We start to read stuff into our own relationships that might not be there. Maxx pointed out in an other thread,our attitude counts for a lot. I'm sorry it hasn't worked out for you so far, but stay positive my friend. Follow the advice of the senior members here, remember they have been there and done that. What better direction could you have!:D