yvictor,
how long you have dating with her before you feel it is time to tell her your past relationship?
For me, I donn't know him long time although he told me a lot about his friend and family,most are very personal stuff.
I do hope he just like you said just want to brag his past but one one knows the truth...he also told me that his friend suggest him it is better not to tell the women too much your past ,but he didn't listen his friend.
We both though it is better to not begin,cause he knows I am afraid of it, and he also feel afraid whether he will disappoint someone again,I saw his tear when he said this.
I am not sure if he is using his honest to get someone's mercy ,cause I hate to be cheated by taking advantage of your mercy since I have experienced it once and feel I become more ruthless and numb which I donn't like it at all ,so I try to use my not very strong faith to think positive.
Shaun, I remember the 24 hours rule ,So I become more rational before make any conclusion.
for me ,it is a nightmare to experience this trap again, but lucky I got everyone's help here. I feel so weak in my faith of trusting right now, but I am glad that I stay steadily in my own mind. I will be more patient ,so donn't worry I will keep walking to the right direction .