Yep, It was a gripe box after all. Nothing wrong with a gripe box if people dont descend to slinging off about personalities.
There are many, many differing points of view on this Forum about life, love and all such things and we have somehow managed to share so much without a huge amount of friction...good for us.
You can easily see on other Fora where the art of personal villification has been taken to dizzying heights and has become the only objective.
Each of us has a different perspective, a different style and whilst we disagree on many things, we dont just throw cr#p at the other members.
Each of us has shared a lot of special insights about our lives and our loves with the other Bros...we do this because we feel safe to do so, safe from ridicule and safe from abuse. Knowing that there is always some advice and info. forthcoming that may help...even though sometimes we dont like the advice !!!.
So gripe by all means...dont abuse.......
I have no wish to see Zombie , or any "new" member remove his/her posts and leave, but if Zombie was really interested in this Brotherhood, he/she would share someting with us, get to know us, and then could truly participate for everybody's benefit.
Just my 2 cents worth