What got up my nose was the sweeping statement from a first time poster that the marriage under discussion by Pineau was in trouble because the wife had male friends...even though we dont know if the husband was an adulterer, a wife beater or just an opportunist looking for a way to hang on to his wife's home for himself !!!!
Let me say this again... I take offence to this statement. Besides, you don't need to know other details because I was not asking you for advise.
I came here to point out that if we want to help someone in a marriage, we need to look at the other partner also. Nothing more than that but was asked to clarify and my clarification was not appreciated.
Most help usually comes in the form of where to find a lawyer, or how to exit the marriage etc. instead of counsel to the person.
This forum appears to be handled like a private club, rather than a public forum.
I am finished here, I don't want to discuss anything further. I have better things to do with my time.