my 2 beefs with ChnLove, it's now Qpid, as discussed in other posts, the rules have changed. The second issue, as everyone is probably aware is agency VIP service, where the translators write all the letters and you don't know anything until your here, in China.
The woman I came to meet, because of the agency's efforts, was just after expensive gifts and brand names. A pretty face, looking for a sucker. Which wasn't me. However, in her quest to scam me, she inadvertently led me to my happiness, because she needed to know how "unhealthy" I was. Her loss, I don't want to talk with the agency, but that's another thread.