Hi UCW,
Looks like you have been given some really sound advice - eg from Willy the wise..
I'd add this:
[1] Check out the situation with her children. If she has a son born after 1990, for whom
she is responsible, think very carefully about the downstream implications
Most of these have been covered on this site in the thread
China Love » Dating a Chinese Lady » Understanding Chinese Women >> Little emperors
In addition to Chinese women wishing to escape China for whatever reason, there
are those who wish (and are very determined) to secure a better education for their children..
this motive is not always obvious... and you do not want to be left holding the short straw..
[2] If you think you will be able to arrange a multi girl interviewing process,
think again :-). Aside from the fact that woman imho are smarter that men, these girls can be
very subtly proactive.. At least thats been my experience ..
The best mousetraps never chase mice..
Good luck
:-)