Hello all. I'm new here. I've gone through some of the forums, but there is a preponderance of information, so large that I think I may be divorced and remarried at least twice by the time I go through it all
Seriously, though, I just recently joined chnlove.com... don't remember how I came to find the site. I understand, from some of my reading here, that there are many scams, fake profiles, etc. Could someone take the time to sum up what the best way to start looking for ladies on the site, how to find the scammers and other pitfalls, and maybe a little bit on what to say and not to say in your initial EMFs with ladies of interest to you?
To be honest, it all seems a little bit daunting, and quite frankly... scary. Any and all help and advice will be greatly appreciated.
As I said, I recently (maybe a month ago or so), joined chnlove.com. I got a TON of admirer mails (which I thought was strange because I'm 47, out of shape, have a receding hairline which is not good for a Leo to possess, and a long bushy beard. My profile picture is not flattering and all too accurate
Still, the admirer mails keep coming in. After a while, I decided I liked the site because I got so much interest, OF COURSE! Am I the fish that just got hooked? Anyway, so I made a list of what was important to me, and went through each admirer's profile to trim down the list. I got down to 8 ladies. I finally got up the nerves to buy some credits and replied to two of the ladies. One replied within hours (I sent the message at 11PM my time, which is noon her time... she is in Beijing, and I am on the East Coast of the USA). One took a couple of days. I've written 3 more EMFs, two to the fast replier and 1 more to the slower lady (who is in Qingdao, by the way). That's my story up to now. I will provide more information if needed, but I just don't know where to go from here... don't know if this is good or bad, or even what I should be looking for or wary of...