Thank you all.
What you say makes good sense. I will cool my jets. In February we should be able to use skype and such. I will still wait until our meet to give marriage any serious consideration. I do have a few non-photo shop pics (one with a gift I sent), so at least I have a decent chance that I am at least talking to the person I think I am. April is still a little ways off. I had already planned to get multiple use Visa in case I felt rushed.
I have enough divorces under my belt already. I don't need or want another.
On the other hand, if it hits off the way I think it will, all bets are off
Yes, even then I would certainly want to wait til at least the end of the visit to marry.
My lady has a friend that she will have translate if needed (non-agency). We are both learning the lingo. But I still plan to take an electronic pocket translator because I don't want to rely on any third party past the first day.
Marry or not, right girl or not, I plan to have a great vacation at the least.
Again thanks. You all have been invaluable with your experience in this.
I will keep posting as new developments come.
Tom