One has to have a laugh now and again , we just read and giggle at times , as my other half is busy playing matchmaker here in Melbourne we have enough escapades here to fill a book ha ha .
Try this , one of my better friends { divorced } was matched 2 years ago with a lady here in Melb who was well separated from her hubby for years separate houses etc in their hometown in China she also runs a successful school in her hometown , but to get a divorce husband decides to engage a lawyer to take her to the cleaners , upshot now is my friend { ex Victorian Police } talks to an Australian detective on secondment in this particular city and via the grapevine husband is persuaded that he better behave , now he is a lamb and can save more than his face , regards Robert .