Leap of faith to Shanghai!

[RobertBfrom aust]

After I and many others have enjoyed Shanghai with our ladies , surely the next movie should be " Sleepless in Shanghai " , regards Sujuan and Robert .

[john1964]

wow, you slept together so soon, never before meet each-other??, am i missing something ?, have you met before ??, it was about 5 months of daily emails and then around 10 days of getting to know each-other before we slept in the same bed "fully clothed" ,

[fivetrout]

In a somewhat related area...Hong asked me to be clean shaven for wedding, family, photos, and so I did right then and there... for her to see. Later as she was dressing for the day, I asked for a peek...seeing that I was soon to be her husband. Conclusion? I am bringing my shaver...but not for me! haha

[fivetrout]

Hong is on her way as I write to make sure my "singles" is acceptable. She has a copy. My hotel does have a separate room with a couch...just in case to avoid awkwardness.

[shaun]

At the risk of sounding like a prude which I am not I would like to caution you to what you say about you and your woman's activities on this site.  One day she will read them and as Ricky Ricardo once said, "Lucy you've got some 'splainin to do" will occur.  Don't forget that these women are resourceful and can find this site.  They also have opinions as to what should and should not be said on this site.  Please don't ruin a good relationship with a great woman just because you might have said a little too much.

I've said very little and have had to explain myself.   Most of these women are very private and want to keep it that way.

Just a word of caution.

[AbovetheLAW]

Ok day 3 and 4 is coming, been very busy.

To everyone so concerned about how fast we slept together and how much of our personal time i told, I have a few words.

1. We are a young couple ...passion is high. End of story.

2. We have a lot of fun in our relationship and we not too serious about life(certain aspects), I actually just told her about it and let her read my post and she laughed and said 'yes i remember that, not i dont mind at all'. I think if it was very very detailed then yes i would be in the dog house. but i see your point.

[IrishGuy65]

1. We are a young couple ...passion is high. End of story.

Haha... very true.  I think we have, for the most part, a bunch of old fogies here    I am probably the youngest or one of the youngest at 48, so take all that with a grain of salt and live your life your way.  Life is short, ATL, enjoy every moment.

[fivetrout]

HEY! Some of us old fogies can teach you a thing or two about passion!

[Martin]

I dont think there is any timeline for when is a proper time to have a physical relationship.  The only timeline is whether you are both ready to move to that level.  In your case, obviously the time was right.  And I am also one of the younger members on this forum, although, not the youngest.

[Arnold]

.... OUR Passion is so high, it lowers my Age. So that puts me in the "Middle-class" of the age group!

[shaun]

I was not rebuking your behavior with your woman.  What happens between the two of you is between the two of you.  That was the point of my comment.  My comment was concerning discretion.

[fivetrout]

You're right Shaun, but I doubt Hong will ever come to this site. She has referred to the forum here as "your people".  haha

[Willy The Londoner]

My short term memory is failing me swiftly can someone reminds me what 'passion' and 'emotions' are!

Mind you my long term memory is intact and going back 55 years to my first girlfriend I can say that I never slept with any women from then until I arrived in China. 

That is true, there was never any time left for sleeping when I was in my prime!!!!!!!!!

Willy

You young un's just be aware of what you post. What has been written on here has been known to come back and bite you on the ass.

[fivetrout]

And I was thinkin I'd be nibbling on her ass!

[AbovetheLAW]

Let me say Shaun thank you for the advice, I think i got a bit defensive due to multiple comments on me and my lady. Sorry.