Brett
I have so far held back on joining the latest round of "emotional adventures" from you.....but that last post finally pushed me over the edge...
Let's look at you and your situation from a Chinese Woman (or ANY Woman for that matter !!!) perspective.
You lead the life of an itinerant peasant, you dont have any possessions, you dont have a decent job, you live in a hovel with absolutely no amenities, you aint exactly Arnioe, Robert Redford, Brad Pitt et al.
What do you think you have to offer a real class lady
?...your scintillating personality
These Women have the goods to be VERY selective who they date and who they finally marry...what do you have to offer them that is so good as to put you streets ahead of the competition ??
You claim that you have dated 25 Women, mostly one-night stands...and yet claim you have the perception and skill to exactly interpret the full and complete character of each of these Ladies...after one date......
Now you are asking us what type of Chinese Woman makes the best wife....how long is a piece of string.
The best wife has only ONE dimension and that is to make you happy...and in turn, the best husband will make her happy.
To find the "Ms right" needs time, patience, perception and just some plain old luck. Hopping from flower to flower aint gonna do it. Because basically, you dont have any idea about what you want/need in a partner, you seem to have some odd idiosincratic vision of Miss 200% perfect is just lurking around the corner waiting for you to turn up...sorry it dont work that way.
Do yourself (and me) a favour and get real, start to behave in some mature manner over Women and relationships and stop asking questions about "best wives"...there is no such generic animal....
Let me also add...Women have a unique genetic advantage over us mere males....they are in charge of the genetic future of the human rqace and they are very selective who they will breed with (that's the bottom line in marriage), so they have this ability to spot a fraud, poser, no-hoper or charlatan at 5 miles range....contrawise, they have the same ability to spot a good man at the same distance.
If you are complaining that you dont see the behaviour you require in a Woman on the first date, and that they are flighty and changeable...it may well be that they dont particularly want you to know who they really are...and after one date, you dont have any chance yourself of finding out who THEY really are. So, you see, what you are doing is an excercise in total futility and will go nowhere except to continually reinforce the serious misconceptions you have about Women in general.
I would do some serious heart searching if I were you....figure yourself out before you start trying to figure them out....they are much better at it than you !!