Because of the general mood of the forum this past month I have been a little quiet about my upcoming plans...
Anyways...
I leave Friday to go back to see Mei in China. We are going to get married on the 6th and then have a wedding dinner on the 7th. I will be there until right after Christmas.
I am excited, of course. This time I know who I am going to see. Last time the mood was completely different. I was holding myself in check - trying not to get my hopes up.
There is never enough time in the day to get all the things done that I want to. And this time I have to worry about my house being empty while I am gone. Last time I turned off the heat. That would not be a good idea this time. There is more to worry about here and I am going to be away for longer - so there is more to think about - more bills to make sure I have paid ahead of time - more expenses to cover.
I am more nervous about all of these things than I am of getting married. In fact that is not a concern at all. I have done my best to be in this relationship with no blinders on. The happenings on this forum this last month have only confirmed that I need to do this, and that of course I am taking a risk. The benefits are so much worth the risk. She is taking a risk too - I mean , I am sure that she feels that way...but I am not a risk...
At least I don't think so.
I have contacted Robertt and am looking forward to talking with him. I need help with all of the particulars. Mei said that she wants to go to the US consulate in Ghanzhou to get more information about getting a visa. Will this help? I don't want to dissuade her, and I know her - she will probably make friends there and smooze the whole process...
I have all of the documents I need. I have the whole work situation sorted out. Everything is good barring that unexpected emergency popping up at home...this is the only thing I am really worried about.
I have someone to cover for me - but...well I just have to let that all go. I can't worry about things that might happen.
So my only question for all of you is - what is the best way to bring money to China? I had a little bit of a hassle using my ATM card last time - we did get it sorted out and I only needed to get out $200- but this time I have to bring about $3000 to pay for the wedding dinner, the rings, and a little honeymoon that we are going on. I can just see me trying to stuff all of that money into my socks...
And I was thinking that I wanted to keep the money a little under the radar. I am not sure about prying eyes and all of that. Is it better to show the money or not? I don't know and I am thinking way too much lately, so a little advice would be helpful.
That is all I have for now.
Jim