Thanks Chris.
Maybe I should tell you all about myself.
I'm 38, I'm from Ireland and living in Dublin. I drive a taxi for a living.
As some of may know, Ireland was one of the countries badly hit in the EU during the credit crash. As I'm self employed, I have to work more hours every week and as a result, my social life has grown dull.
Why did I join ChLove I hear you ask. Well the thing is, during the last 10-15 years the Chinese population in Ireland grew from a few dozen to 100,000 +.
I couldn't get over how beautiful the Chinese women are, it was like I never saw a woman before. Plus Chinese women seemed more gentle than Irish/European women.
Anyway, having a different cultural background I wasn't sure of the protocol on asking a Chinese woman out etc.. so I joined ChLove and surfed around on sites regarding Chinese cluture.
But around that time my father got cancer then later died and I lost interest in seeking love.
Since my birthday in July, I asked myself a question that I'm sure everyone in life asks themselves, 'do I want to grow old alone ?'
So I started to surf the ChLove site again. I got a letter from a lady that wasn't writing a lovey-dovey letter on how a great man I am, you all know the type of letter. She seemed sincere. Her admire letter came on the week of her birthday. I couldn't help thinking if she was asking herself the same question.
So I bought some credits and we started to send EMF's back and forth. She lives in Shenzhen and the EMF's are from agency 508. She says she owns a gym in Shenzhen, called Sunshine Fitness.
Now I refer to my post above, I don't wish to spend a large chunk of my weekly profits on EMF's or phone calls. 30 credits a week seems a bit expensive. I never came across a more expensive way to communicate with someone.
I seek the advice from the members here.
I would like to know this woman more if she is the 'real deal', if any has anyone has advice on how I check if I'm been scammed and if I should insist the lady give me her email address. Failing that, should I give her my QQ number ?
I installed the QQ International programe.
Thanking you all in advance,
Niall
P.S. Oh and by the way chaps, I have been reading many of the posts on living in China and it's culture you all posted here. Invaluable stuff. Thanks.