Hi Guys;
the first marital to overcome is the food real chinese food most western men ( not all) western men dont really like and in time it will become an real issue if both dont learn to cook both foods and come to compromise what to eat and when as it can ruin a marriage. both have to compromise here .
homes are for living not for show! example if you buy a new couch and insist that the husband cannot sit on it unless guests are there is a big red flag. a house in not a home learn the difference!
actions when out in public
don't make decisions based on what other chinese who may see you on the street think! dress and act as you would at home, in love and not caring what others think be yourself, your not on a parade.
don't pretend to be so above others, don't pretend to be a city girl if your a countryside girl western men like both! be yourself DO NOT pretend to be who you are not. be real is the point ! WHEN you come to the USA you will find it is the rural countryside that most Americans want to live in. ( dont worry it is not far from good shopping, RESTAURANTS and cities lol.
if you marry only for benefit, and not #1 LOVE then your marriage will fail 100% guarantee love the guy first then you have a good chance of success forever.
LAST DONT PLAY STUPID GAMES LIKE FAKE POUTING IF YOU DONT GET YOUR WAY, YOU NEED TO QUICKLY GROW UP MEN SEE THRU THIS FAKE AND QUICKLY TURN SOUR ON YOU IF THIS IS YOUR MO!
now foR the men:
western men don't be a pig in the house learn to remove your shoes, learn to be a good helper in the home, she will need and expect your fullest attention to her needs, she may be superficial when she first arrives, but after time she will see how life goes but you need patience and she does as well.
enough for this Topic.
