For what I see now, at least we have some sort of direction erection. I am sympathetic to the mods. I am not sympathetic of offensive
members (they remain nameless). Just fill in the blank(s). LOL
As one of this site's 'passive' members, I realize a few co- members are somewhat self elevated, self inflated, egotistical, bearers
of hidden agendas, or some other nefarious shit...pretty much to the consternation of others. Usually not a big deal. But now?
This time shit sticks.
My take on this. Many of you watched Saturday Night Live. A bunch of years ago, there was their weekly skit of
the Whiner Family. Go figure the hilarity of it. It made you want to throw your shoe at the TV.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=USafh7Onivo That was funny. This is not.
I was looking for the
'China word' in 'search' that best described the whining Chinese princess's way of manipulation.
I keyed 'whining' and failed my intended, but in failure up popped an old post titled
“Newbies Corner / RE: mods
explanation about china-love”. http://www.chnromance.com/index.php/topic,1868.0.html Wow. 1st time I see this, “the 'China Shark' moment of retrospect”. The gnashing of teeth. Well, it was pretty much the same back
then as it is now. The incident got out of hand. Words were written. A crisis began. It should not have gone that far.
A few of today's members were parties of sort, so I am sure they remember well.
There will always be some conflict, subtle or not. I think we are adults in how we navigate our life. No big fuss unless some member is
genetically blessed 'thin skinned' & chooses not to dis- engage, or some loud lout with a hidden agenda makes his mark.
The general membership base should not be the arena to handle conflict. It creates an unhealthy departure from the reality of what
this website intent is all about.
Just my own personal take on things.