Last one out, please turn out the lights. Actually, there are still a lot of ladies contacting me on QQ asking for help finding a western husband. But finding interested men has been a problem.
I do meet many women here, in fact every three months we have 30 plus come to our home for evening get togethers. Nearly half of these have no husbands and would love to have one. But in that respect I find that I have created a mini problem in my area. That is because I came, I saw, I stayed!
Many of those I meet would prefer to have a husband in the same situation as my wife and I. ( But as my wife tells me
'I am one in a million!')
I must admit that over the years I have developed a part Western part Chinese lifestyle! My wife has learned more English than I have Chinese so our conversations are in Chinglish!
She has learned to cook Western style even though she herself only eats Chinese dinners but sometimes we tuck into Western lunches together.
I get all the English Premier League football (soccer) on TV because association football is becoming big in China. I can watch UK or USA TV at the touch of a button. (That button is often used when on comes the comedy classic of the season which goes by the name of the US Presidential Election
)
The one difference in my life in China and the UK is that here I am looked after like I have never been looked after before.
Living permanently here is not for everyone but for me it is everything.
Willy
