JimB, my Lao Po is 43 years old so I know what you are saying, and brother, you better belive what she is saying is what she means, she will prolly have to pass a few tests in order to continue with her career, and Zhou has been here for a little over 5 years and has not changed her values, yes she has adjusted to the States but did not compromise hervalues, its wonderful, good luck brother and enjoy what she wants to give :icon_biggrin: