hey DavidK,
thanks much for kind words.
in retrospect-
there is no slowing down.
no thoughts for sedate retirement lifestyles.
no thoughts of negativity from strange pale faces or 'use- to- be- friends'.
no thoughts of failure with the ONE woman of my life choice.
it is just a matter of luck, of 'divine intervention', plus a good dose of cultural awareness & understanding.
no logical order exists. you different. she different. we all different.
figure out the grand scenario, to each or all.
a few years back, I always thought my path in life, lonely, strewn about with hazards.
now, Jing & I are one, kicking aside the b.s. as it presents.
I would not have it any other way.