Frans i read your post on chnlove about Thai ladies, i must admit its tallies with what I've read elsewhere, its not a place I'd look for long lasting love.
Am a bit surprised to see you recommending a Thai dating site, or do I have the wrong guy here?
Hi Ronan,
Yes you have the right guy, and what you did read I’m with you.
But, Thailand is not like China. The majority of foreigners (farang) land at BKK International and the ones passing through emigration 85% are men. At the Southern entrance from Malaysia it is practically 98% men the 2% are female merchants trading back-and-forth Thailand-Malaysia-Thailand. The guys are not looking for marriage all they have on their brain as Freud said: SEX and they came to the right place with ±70,000 in the flesh trade many of them working in the entertainment venues where these tourist make contact with them. Don’t use me as an example living in Thailand and after all these years still not married. I receive a good number of contacts i.e. past week there are 20 of them on my computer inbox. Where the kink comes is when they see with their own eyes where I live, what I have and everything in my name plus having operated large organizations in Thailand and I’m a lawyer understanding Thai law their interest in me fast disappears. Thai females are no different than Chinese females; they want to be in control, with me they correctly figure they would not be in control. Also like Chinese females they think when they marry they own everything the guy has, that is not how the law works. Everything the male and female own before the day of marriage belongs to each individually, after the day of marriage everything they acquire will be owned jointly. For mid-twenty olds that is no biggy, the same as for mid-life and past who have pissed everything they ever had up against the wall, because neither will have acquired much of value at the young age. But, when a person passes mid-life that person should have acquired some valuable possessions – home(s), car, investments, bank account(s) etc.
For you guys bend on a Chinese female, Thais are Chinese, the same as Fujians, Sichuans, Liaonings and all the others, and there live more Thais north of the border in China than there live in Thailand. Thailand shows 76 million inhabitants and that is all the records say. Now break it down and you get a different picture. Thais I would say number about 30 million and predominantly live in the center of Thailand. In the east of Thailand (Isan) live about another 30 million north part are of Lao stock and the south Cambodian. Then there are another 15 million living in the south, they are Malay.
Looking for a lady in BKK is the same as looking for a lady in Shanghai or Beijing. This is where TLL comes in because it has ladies from all over Thailand. As Thai men say, “never marry a teacher or a nurse” and that is exactly what the foreigner should be looking for. Reason Thai men and also Chinese men do not like these two professions is because they are educated females putting them at a minimum on par and often above the man’s education. I receive many letters from teachers and nurses, using astrological personality compatibility, in my case Taurus compatible with Capricorn – Virgo. That leaves 70% out. At the moment I’m in contact with a teacher, Master degree, Thai Stock. BUT, if she lived any further away from me she would be living in Lao. About a 20-hour drive from me, I live 120-km south of Bangkok, and no airline flight even there is an airport from the days of the USARMY but no airline interesting to fly there of low traffic density.
How does a Thai stock females to get that far North East in Isan land? When people opt for university medical Dr. or teacher education they are compelled to serve 10-year in those out of the way places. Well, when a person had lived and worked 10-year in a place that person pretty well has established itself so then just continue on, unless wanting to start all over again. This is like the teacher I’m in contact with, she is coming up on retirement so the easiest way is to find a foreigner to marry and move into an already established place.
Yes Thailand is know as the whorehouse capital of the world, but the percentage of Thai stock females in it are a minority, most of them are from Isan.
I think this Forum is interesting and educational.
Hang in there you guys and take a look at TLL it cost nothing. You may even land up like me sixty year later still not married.
DrFransBRoosPHD
