Right guy's thank you for your kind words, I would be there now if it was at all possible believe me on that, unfortunately I cannot at the moment only 18 more weeks and will be there not only for her, but also for my new life in China.
Here was my answer to what she wrote....
"Changing you job position baby will be a good idea, and will be good for your morale. The benefits that you receive from getting a better job, include things like a 'higher wage', maybe a better 'health plan', the 'feeling' of bettering yourself, and of course getting 'more' experience, which are all good, and having more experience then opens up new avenues for you. However, with the better position also comes 'responsabilty' and 'more' stress, (if it comes to the point of maybe having to inform the bosses, that someone is not pulling their weight in the office, could you do it? The only reason I say this is because I have had that position of supervisor), sweetheart, I think it will be a good thing for you, and feel very honoured that you wish to do this for us, and I am 100% behind your decision."