In my EMF I asked one girl what brought her to Chnlove and what does she like best about western culture so far. This was her response:
"I think that the most interesting part of western culture to me would be the lifestyle ,you can see that the Chinese would earn money to buy house,and the western people would buy house first,then earn money,how do you think of it?"
It actually made me laugh out loud a little - there is some innocence in that line of thinking, but essentially the asian cultures in general are fascinated with the western cultures, just as we western cultures are fascinated with the eastern ones. Grass is always greener, eh?
As for me - I'm 30, I make great pay and I'm not in a rush. I'm divorced, I've got child support payments to the tune of $1k a month, but they will stop soon as my ex has re-married and they are adopting my kids. I'm taking my time getting to know the ladies and in all honesty, reading about the scams and stuff had me paranoid. However, I am confident that all of my ladies are real with the exception of one - it was great communication for about 8 EMFs but the last 4-5 have been shorter and shorter. I'm pretty sure she's real - I think I'm only disappointed because I like her the best. My understanding from all of the ones I talk to is that they are looking for the western culture, acceptance, etc. The younger ones want the opportunity and lifestyle the western world "represents" even though we all know that it's not easy to make a go of it here in the western world. The older ones are familiar with the stigmas and cultural barriers that they still run into - divorce, children, etc. and the Chinese men judge them for it (even though it's not uncommon for some men to be unfaithful and treat women in an un-gentlemanly fashion).
Actually... I forgot the rest of what I was about to say.. I'm in a food coma >_< anyway, cheers!