Here it is JimBo, never been burned by one, I've had many Chinese friends/neighbors over the years & at least 6 Chinese girls live in my house over the past 5 years but only as boarders..... but I have been involved with 3 Japanese boarders out of a total of probably 30, sort of still with one now but her visa ran out so it's not really going to happen, though we talk on skype every few days. I am involved with one girl in Changsha but I would rather keep her details under my hat so I don't end up looking like a fool or sucker if it doesn't work out, but she seems pretty nice......so far, But trust me, if she tries to rip me off you'll know about it & if we end up marrying in a couple of years I'll also let you know about it, but until I actually meet her face to face the word love will not even remotely come into it, I've set the ground rules on that & we communicate through email & a translator that she has organised nearly every day, I have her mobile number but we only make very short calls because her English is pretty poor, we've talked on webcam on Skype & I have her home address..............all at the cost of 3 EMF's, this is why I am cynical at guys who spend months & months paying to talk to girls only to be ripped off or conned by them or the agencies. I have also got email addresses of 2 other girls who I'm keeping on the back burner through ChnLove ...... & since I joined QQ I have had at least 10 single ladies looking for men contact me, so if I can do it at a grand total of 11 EMF's for contact with 3 ladies privately there is no reason others can't.
Slap me & I'll slap you back if I think you deserve it but if that slap maybe wakes me up then I'll thank you.