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Offline Chong

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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #240 on: October 02, 2009, 12:49:56 am »
If it's a rouge ( one who writes false EMFs on behalf of the ladies or provided bad service ) agency and there are many in Changsha ... I wouldn't want to pay the fee either. Plus they may not even have the proper gov't certificate to match local ladies with foreigners ... so they won't be able to pursue the matter in court. Fees can run as high as 10,000 to meet & 50,000 RMB to marry. I wouldn't make any false assumptions about Butt when his personal facts & story aren't known to us.
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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #241 on: October 02, 2009, 01:36:30 am »
What is this BS about women from Wuhan cheating? What type of statement is that?  I am married to a woman from Wuhan, and I am damn sure she is not cheating on me, I would bet my life on that !!  I have been to Wuhan several times, and none of the women I know over there are like that, they are serious when looking for a potential partner.  I guess it depends on the type of people you hang around with (wrong crowd). Sure there will always be some women that will cheat, that is world wide, just like there are some guys that cheat. It basically all comes down to the morals and values each person has or does not have regarding the issue of cheating and I also believe it depends on the way you were raised. Also it is sad that some people just never get it, they just do not know the true meaning of the words  love, commitment and marriage, and probably never will. Some will have the illusion that they think they know, but in reality they do not. (male and female)
           
 I have certain (few) rules that I just would never break under any circumstances, and cheating is actually the first rule. I am dead serious about that and I have made that very clear to my wife Ping before we got married, I am totally committed to our marriage and to my wife. I obviously love my wife very much and would never hurt her, sex is important in any relationship, however it is not the most important thing, and my wife from WUHAN thinks the same way as I do regarding that.

VinceG, JimB and DavidE, I totally agree with what you guys have said in your posts.

I know I went off topic here, but I (and others) just did not agree with that statement about Wuhan women. We are all entitled to our personal opinions, however that does not mean we are always right about them. I also do not see how making such false statements can help the members here, like Maxx has already stated, a debate is fine, but keep it real.
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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #242 on: October 02, 2009, 04:54:38 am »
Quote from: 'Vince G' pid='18548' dateline='1254278824'
Abigbutt, I think your bordering on insulting many here. Arnold's wife is 15 year younger, my lady is 17 years younger and so on. What money are they going to get? We're working men. If some rich guy picks a much younger girl as his mate he gets what he deserves. As for the sexually pleased? I sure hope she can keep up with me?

Well , I have to put my two cent's in here of course .
The way I look at it , Qing might be 15 years younger , but she is 15 years smarter then your average Lady in the State's . ( From my expierence of course ) So that put's her right there along side me . Beside's , she is making me feel sooo much younger . To tell you , I'm 56 ... and as I was in  Shanghai the first week of my Trip , we went to go see a very famous Doctor in SH , that is a Specialist in helping married couple's to have children with the help of Herb's . I did get checked and they did a Sperm count ( which is above average ) so we are planning on having a Child together after all . Age does not bother us in any way at all , as it did not bother me in my first marriage .

Sorry Sly , to bring this up here in your Post . Also sorry to have not  had the chance to see you again on this Trip . Later Buddy .
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« Reply #243 on: October 02, 2009, 05:12:35 am »
Bob,

Agree with everything that you and the others have said on this matter, and though it is off the actual thread topic, i think it needed to be said!!!

When members come out with foolish and or idiotic statements such as we have seen here, they need to be stamped on, and be shown to be what they are, totally unfounded and false statements!!

I'm sure there are many here, that have been scammed, or let down by the lady they been in communication with. I'm also pretty sure that they have at sometime, thought the same thing just after finding out that there trip was a waste of time, and an emotional disaster. But mature men will quickly recognise, that you can't condemn a complete cities women, on the basis of ONE or two ladies.

We don't get into our mature years without learning a thing or two about life, but it seems that some learn more than others, and some, just never learn anything at all!!

David.....
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« Reply #244 on: October 02, 2009, 05:32:57 am »
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Bob,

Agree with everything that you and the others have said on this matter, a though it is off the actual thread topic, i think it needed to be said!!!

When members come out with foolish and or idiotic statements such as we have seen here, they need to be stamped on, and be shown to be what they are, totally unfounded and false statements!!

I'm sure there are many here, that have been scammed, or let down by the lady they been in communication with. I'm also pretty sure that they have at sometime, thought the same thing just after finding out that there trip was a waste of time, and an emotional disaster. But mature men will quickly recognise, that you can't condemn a complete cities women, on the basis of ONE or two ladies.

We don't get into our mature years without learning a thing or two about life, but it seems that some learn more than others, and some, just never learn anything at all!!

David.....


David
This is exactly the same thing that China Shark Mike would have said.  And I think it goes without saying that 'many' of the brothers would feel the same way, but just not posted...

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« Reply #245 on: October 02, 2009, 10:29:07 am »
Has anyone noticed that we have not heard from Sly in 4 days?  Wonder what is going on?  Has he found the 1 and we are the furthest thing from his mind?

Sly, where are you!!!!!

Shaun

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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #246 on: October 02, 2009, 11:13:45 am »
Hehe, he must be busy talking French to his lady!
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« Reply #247 on: October 02, 2009, 11:16:05 am »
Aaaahhhhhhh the Romantic Frenchman...sly where are you????:icon_biggrin::icon_biggrin::angel:

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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #248 on: October 02, 2009, 11:40:32 am »
When things went well for me I wasn't able to/didn't want to get to a computer, fingers crossed for Sly this is the reason for him too .
Become the change you want today, or all your tomorrows will be like yesterday.

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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #249 on: October 02, 2009, 11:46:36 am »
Ahhhh No news is Good News?

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« Reply #250 on: October 02, 2009, 12:43:19 pm »
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When things went well for me I wasn't able to/didn't want to get to a computer, fingers crossed for Sly this is the reason for him too .


I agree, after all that has happened I hope he is having the time of his life!!

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« Reply #251 on: October 03, 2009, 01:37:45 am »
I also hope you Guy's are right and it's not that the Thread was taken on a Ride for a moment away from it all .
Or ... that I could not catch up with him again in GZ . Wish it's not that . I was too busy myself .:blush:

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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #252 on: October 04, 2009, 04:02:42 pm »
Well.
I can see I've missed so many debates in fact on my thread when I was not here, once again :)
you did well, and sure, I was too busy to post.

Sorry to not give many details right now, i'm just back since today and I am quite tired, so I'll post tomorrow.
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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #253 on: October 04, 2009, 04:11:09 pm »
Wow, welcome back Sly! I can't wait to read your trip summary, it sounds like you have enough for 3 novels and a screenplay :icon_cheesygrin:.

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RE: China again, September - October
« Reply #254 on: October 04, 2009, 04:30:12 pm »
Sly in China, episode one...In the beginning

Sly in china, episode two...The Epicenter

Sly in China, episode three...Now we live


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