Well.
I wanted to post all my trip in Gz but I just will talk about Liyan. And in another reply, I'll talk more my trip in Gz.
So...
Meeting Liyan at Gz's Airport for the first time was very good, even if there was a problem with my flight (3 hours delayed....
too bad)
Liyan is a very beautiful woman, she'll be 29 years old at the end of October, and speaks quite good english. Even when she's looking for some sentences, she says "how to say... "
We hugged at the airport and were very happy to see each other.
I have to admit that I do think there was chemistry on ACTIVE mode in fact.
We talked a lot in the taxi, once arrived at the hotel, she told me she had to work on the next morning, but that she then would have some free holidays to be with me, so that was a very good news
Well.
I remember she didn't stress nor that she wasn't anxious when we were in the same room, together.
The first night was very good, she slept in her bed and I slept in mine without any problems.
With time, the feelings grow up and so... on the 2d morning together, I saw she was awake, so I spoke a bit with her, she looked at me, she was still in her bed, I then sit down next to her, and the first kiss came (from me)
At first, she said "it's dangerous", but ... one kiss again and she didn't say that anymore. She just liked and I was very happy to be with her. I gonna say that yes, falling in love can exist, and she's really the one I love. For many reasons, not only because she's very beautiful, but because she is also clever, she took care about me since I was with her in Gz, and many other things.
I can more know how is the chinese kiss, compared to the frenchy one
We talked quite a long moment about love, about her and me, together, later.
She's a bit scared because she doesn't want to quarel with her family, but she already told her parents about me. She told me that her father told a "no" because of the language barrier, but that her mother saw me on webcam and via some pictures and that it seemed that she could like me. But that doesn't mean it would be as a "no" nor a "yes".
I told her I was learning more and more about chinese, because I'd like to be able to speak to him without any translator behind.
Liyan understands all of it and wishes to live with me in France. She also knows I'd like to marry her.
So, you can guess that our status is now as "engaged". I know what I want with her, she also knows it,
I know it can take some time.
I also know that her father told "no" at first but Liyan didn't tell me recently anything more about her father, so, maybe is he thinking about all of it.
I can also say that Liyan loves me, she already told it to me, and that she really liked all the days with me in Gz. Even all what we could do/visit/eat was very nice, shared together
Many thanks to Irish' and his idea about the tour on the river, Liyan told me she really liked that. So did I
She also told me about her fears in love and because of her past, and knows I really love her.
She liked kidding me when we were in Gz, in the hotel and outside. At first, if I did the first kiss, man can easily guess that outside, with time, she came to kiss me many times, and I was very shy because as I say, she's very beautiful.
Most of the men in the street were looking at her, then to me, then to her again and then to me.
2 chinese ladies told Liyan I was beautiful and she liked it, but she didn't want to say "he's mine"... wei shen me !!!
She was almost sad when I had to leave her, at Gz airport, but as I told her "I want to come back, for you", she smiled.
She told me today she talked to her friends about me, that they wished us the best but that they worry about her. I can understand it.
As I do think, time could help me to gain her father's "grattitude", I think.
Maybe some advices/comments could help, I don't really know.
But I know that now, I just found my love and that I'd go many things for her to come and live with me.
Soooo happy to love her and to be loved
I'll post more news about Gz later, I promise.
