Any more news about the situation with Liyan.
Well.. I would say there is like a habit, every night, for 1h30 - 2 hours, we are on QQ. As her stereo jack is out of order, she can't hear me on the microphone, but it's also a good thing (no need to sing
)
She's making real efforts to speak with me in english... but when I do her some "compliments" about that and anything else, she just smiles, nothing else... even a "xiexie"... but it doesn't matter.
I try to write her in chinese but it's really difficult... not really difficult because I can use google translator or any other website... but because I can not remember the ideograms and write it without translating english to chinese.
We've been talking about her parents. traditional ones...
I just quickly was :-/ and Liyan told me that they were not really old traditional ones. I was a bit sceptik about that, but why not?
She said that if her parents could see she was happy with me, they would like me... (it just sounds "normal"...) but it also sounds like some déjà vu...
Well, I then told her that I could wait any longer about her feelings. At first, she didn't really understand, and then, I replied, meaning that I could wait even 10 more days, or more, or less, there was no problem. She then thanked me, saying that she really wanted the "face to face" because it is really that which will say if there would any yes or any no...
For sure, I really agree with her and like that way to be.
She also told me she has her sister at home for the weekend, and so that she spoke to her sister about me. I also saw her sister quickly on QQ (but she was shy, so she left 2 secs after having said a little "hello" to the cam)...it was nice of her to say me hello, anyway.
She sent me any more pictures and I also sent her some...
Today, it seemed a bit "strange"... I don't really know how to explain. But I'll try.
Everyday she is nice, she is happy and so on, today she just was like "tired", and not really fine.
First question that I asked her was "ni hao ma?", and the reply was a "yes"...
Well, she never replied like that, so I just doubt for a few seconds she had her QQ number hacked...
no any other reply from her, just a smile and that's all.
But after 2 mins, she faced the cam, so it was sure that it was her...
We talked about September... there was like some misunderstandings, because she asked if I always was going to Shanghai or not, and I replied that yes, but that I could go to Guangzhou later. It seemed she replied something like "don't worry, don't come, I maybe will just have a few days in Guangzhou..."
Well, because of it, I translated and I didn't really understand.. I then become "sad/angry" but no way to hide it... I then asked her if she did not want to see me, she then said "no no, I will handle"...
She also told me that she has asked her company if she could have some days in September to see me, and she said that she would get the reply on .... Tuesday...
The famous tuesday.
Because she also will know if she can have some free days to be with me in Guangzhou and maybe would she tell me anything else... but as I told her, she doesn't need to hurry about that.
She also talked about hotels in Guangzhou, she'd like to be in the city and the ones she sees are like som Holiday Inn 4* and she says it is too expensive.
I then tried to look for cheaper ones, I then found some but as I told her, first, waiting for the reply of the company, then, booking the hotel.
She told me too that she would like to go away of the agency but she has a contract, she paid 3000 rmbs and doesn't know what will happen if she choses to delete all her data on her profile on Chnlove... She also doesn't know what will happen to the 3000 rmb's.
I sent her some "important pics" about me and my childhood, writting that she was the only one to see some of it... Well...
It was as she might has been as cold as ice.. Not even a smile, not even a thanks...
I also sent her a picture about my daughter, and then, she smiled... wtf :huh:
Sometimes, I do say myself that it is really difficult to understand that way to be.. But I go on with it, anyway.
One thing I have noticed is that she is jealous. I told her about an admirer (I never readed her letter) who lives in the same city as her, and who had the same clothes (referring to another topic here, in fact) :
Clothesand she said that I had any admirer, it was nice... I had to tell her 2 times I never wrote to that lady before and that I would never do... well.. she then said she trusted me but I'm not really convinced for now about that.
However, I still like having some QQ sessions with her at night, even if I sometimes would be in China.
Maybe any other news on Tuesday