Peter,
I hope you'll find that hat ASAP and so you could be happy to offer it to your father
by the way, even if you could not find one, maybe your wife could bring it to you in Sweden, later? It would not be a bad thing, in fact. Do you know approximatively how many months you would have to wait for her to come and be with you in Sweden?
By the way, could you just tell me how you were recorded on the tv, I mean, was there any special event except your marriage, did someone contact you and so on? Just a bit curious in fact, and I don't remember there is any weblink about it.
Anyway, like some other brothers here, you realized a part of your dream, the best is to come, even if later