Thanks Guys...boy getting used to the culture; I can see it will be a big shift in my thinking.
Here is the full text of the letter. Very warm and loving. We have been communicating since April. Yes, I should be impressed by the fact she isn't a money grubber. I never intended to impress her with the offer and I certainly didn't intend to suggest she was interested in my money. Guess I should have asked here before I offered. Live and learn eh?
Dear Skip,
Always so nice to hear from you!! Do you know, when reading your letters, there is always a big smile on my face~~ ^_^ how are you doing today? Very well? I pretty hope so! I'm doing fine here as well~ but missing you quite a lot! ^_^
So glad to know you love my letters and pics!! I feel so sweet in my hear now~ ^_^ i also miss you and want to meet you in person one day! I think the days we spending together will be wonderful~! ^_^
So you have an excellent son!! You must be very proud of him, right. I bless him and his wife here!! Wish to meet them one day and all of your family and friends~ ^_^ if you come, i will also show you to my family and friends. ^_^
Oh, dear, you want to send me so expensive gift?! I thought you want to send me a small gift this time!!! Thanks so much first but dear, laptop computer costs too much so i can not accept it. I know you have your good income. While, flower or other little gifts are ok but computer is too expensive an item for me. So i can not accept your kindness here. I hope to get your understanding. I don't want your money because i come here not for money but for true love, a loving husband who can share the rest life with!! So skip, can you understand me? Yes, i just live on my monthly pension now but i'm ok here. I live on my own and enjoy my simple life here. Well, if i can find my special one, that would be much happier for sure. ^_^
Dear, i'm learning English in a training school but i feel so hard to remember the words and sentences. But if you say "i love you", i can understand it. so don't worry about that~ ^_^ so you are learning Chinese as well?! So glad to hear that! When i say "wo ai ni" i also hope you can understand me. ^_^ let's learn together and fight for our bright future!! ^_^ yes, i speak mandarin though i'm in Zhanjiang where the local people speak cantonese. so what you are learning must be mandarin, right?! So when you come, we can talk with two languages, mandarin and English. I think there must be much fun when we communicate with each other, right. ^_^
Yes, Jessie is doing her wonderful job for us. When you come, if you don't mention here, i also want to invite her for a dinner with us.
Dear, i will close for now to shop for some food for dinner.
Take good care!
Missing you,
Alice
P.s. Glad you love the cute pic for you. Well, i think you are the cute bear and in his hands is my warm heart for you~ ^_^