Okay Mike , now that you have it going for you and Zhiping seems to be the one you been looking for , keep those romantic letter's coming and get to know her real well and vise versa . After the relationship grows stronger , you will know when it's time to go and Visit her . No need to rush , if your holding her Heart , she is not going anywhere .
Vince , I also told this about the cost of EMF's versus taking out the Lady at home , no comparising . You know what you can receive for the EMF money , unlike the dinner/takeout money , you spend on a western Woman .