I want to start out by saying that I wish I found this site sooner, it is jammed packed with good information. I think Vince could write a book.
About a month ago, I hit it off with a lady on the site, and I have been racking up the EMF's. I kept writing to her because I detected a sincerity that appeared to be genuine. What was amazing was that there never seemed to be any translation confusion between us, and every letter had near impeccable grammar and exquisite sentence structure. A good deal of things we discussed were complex items no "form translating software" could tackle. However, the last few letters... all has changed. I spend half my time on the return letter clearing up confusion. The letters seem sloppily translated, and I have to remind her of things I said in past letters. I have two fears; one is that I think I might be getting bamboozled, the other is that her lack of english ability might be too great to overcome if I brought her over. I have told her I will always be honest with her. Here are my questions:
Do I confront her about this downturn in quality of letters? Or should I be the cad and just block her?
Is it foolhardy of me to believe I can bring her over when she speaks little to no english?
Is there someone out there that has had success communicating with a lady of limited english ability and made it work?
I am very confused and need advice.
Thanks.
- Jay
P.S. On a topic a bit off tangent, I have still looked though my admirer mails while communicating with the lady I am talking to now. I am bemused to see ladies who claim to be "serious" about marriage, but they are scantily clad in their photos, posing in very flimsy dresses/lingerie. One "serious" person posed with unbuttoned jeans. One girl's picture set included a photo that exposed her panties. Yep, she's "serious" about marriage. :lol: One asked me a hypothetical question about toilets. I assume others have noticed this. Has someone compiled a blacklist of agencies to avoid?