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Re: Difference of age
JimB:
Angel and I have had this conversation a couple of times. I am 58 and she is 41. Chinese women do not look at the age of a man the same way we do. They are raised to adapt to the man, not the other way around. Plus they feel than an older man can give them the comfort and consideration that a younger man may not. Plus it is perfectly acceptable for an older man to marry a much younger woman. Why do you think that there are so many over 30 divorcees who are desperately looking for a husband. Because once over 30 the odds of her marrying drop significantly and over 40 is almost none. I had a lot of younger women in their early 30's chatting with me. I would not consider them seriously. My daughter said I could not have anyone younger than she is. lol She couldnt see herself calling a younger woman, Mom. I think in their 40's is totally acceptable. Plus at that age they are mature enough to know themselves and what they can and can not live with. That and one more caveat. True love sees no age, race, religion or continent. She and I have that so age is of no consequence except in the abstract. The only comment ever made was that she wished we were both younger so she could have my baby. I shot that one down fast let me tell you. I have already raised my kids plus I am taking on a 16 year old. I just can not see me at 70 coaching t ball.
UK Mark:
This 'age' thing is a fascinating subject , I'd like to share with you guys part of a couple of conversations i had in early April with my girl Ning (She is 35 and I am 39)
NING ''Thank you very much for your fast reply, I am really very happy to hear from you again. Thanks for your kind words, at first I just wonder whether I should write to you or not, as you are so young, I think a man in your age should like to find a lady around 25 years old or so. And I am surprise that you still wish to write to me, thank you''
MARK ''Thankyou for your message with the lovely photos attached , you are very modest about your beauty , it is interesting to hear you say i am so young to be interested in a lady your age , I am 39 this month :s , hee hee , i have read that chinese men often leave their wifes for younger women , especially after having a child as Chinese law states a family is only allowed one child , in the UK , whilst it is true many men 'chase' younger women it is also true that most couples are close in age , of course there are many exceptions as in all things. ''
NING '' I know that you are 39, and to be honest, I write to men who’s over 45, and later they told me that they want a younger lady around 25 years old or so, that is why I ask you whether you are too young to me. I would be very happy if you don’t care about age, I think that is just a number, I just want to make sure you want to know a lady in my age. Hehe. ''
NING ''I think may be when you write to me again, you can send me some of your photos? I think to a man, 40 is just a age for him to begin his life, but to a woman, may be that is different. Hehe.''
Arnold:
That's awesome Mark . Think how happy you'll make her , after having found such " YOUNG " Man like you ? You both are lucky to have found each other and think , you will have many more year's as a Couple , compared to some older Men . Like myself , being 56 and my Wife 41 , i'll give myself a good twenty year's ... I hope ?
UK Mark:
heheh Ya i do feel lucky Arnold , But you already have your girl ! well done and all the best for now and the future to you and your wife
. Heheh be generous give yourself 30 years not 20 :D
Arnold:
Thanks Mark , let's say 25 . I don't want to push it ! Hope the Man above is listening to my request ? I don't mean Martin !!!!
Your now on the same road to happiness , go slow and watch for the exit's to nowhere . Good luck my Friend .
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