Al,
Yeah, ....just use that option available on the admirer letter, no problem!! You can add to favorites, you can send a cupid note or send an EMF direct to the lady in question. Then just wait for the response. If you don't see any reflection in the reply to the letter you sent, it means the agency is replying to you, with a present reply letter, and not her replying directly.
If that's the case, write again, and add a short note to the translator at the bottom of your letter, that you will not respond again if the lady is not going to respond to my letter in the normal manner (answering any questions you may have included) It normally works, but not always....
David.....