Yes , the Truth and nothing but the Truth . One lie will turn to two and so on , til one forget's his own first lie that started everything .
Some of these Women , will wait for you and understand your situation , while other's don't . This is because , these Lady's all know , not just us , how much money ( close to it ) it takes to make this venture real . I'm sure nine out of ten want to leave China and be with their Man , when the time comes . So having no Job , little saving's , is going to make this wait too long for them . Can you blame them for that ?
I can't . Besides , you have to convince the Parent's that you are a Man that will and can take care for their Daughter , which is not easy , having no Job . I also know , it's not for ever , to be without a Job , but they don't look at it this way , like we do . Remember , different country , different culture .