For me, when I was younger (much younger), I dated a beatiful girl from the Phillipines. I was stupid and ended up breaking up with her. And my father has never made me forget that I should have stayed with her. I ended up marrying a Canadian girl, and ended up getting divorced 5 yrs later.
I ended up dating another Canadian girl, and we ended up breaking up after 2 1/2yrs. I guess that with my bad luck with North American women, has turned me off on them. And after answering many, many, profiles on a few dating sites with no luck has also turned me off. I cannot understand, why a woman would not want to be with a nice guy as myself.
My fascination/love for Asian women however has always remained with me. Their exotic beauty, and wonderful loving, and giving personality is what has brought me to where I am now. I did have contact with a few different Asian women, however, they changed their minds, or their family helped change their views on coming to Canada.
I then contacted Hong in Nov 2008, on POF, and we hit it off. However a few months later, her family ended up talking her into going back with her ex-husband, because of their son. During that time, Hong actually introduced me to a friend of hers, that I ended up talking with, but I did not have the same feelings for this other girl as I did with Hong.
But, Hong's relationship with the ex-husband ended in disaster only a few months later. She said that during the breakup, she could only think of me, and that she felt that being with me, was her destiny. She spoke to her friend, who graciously stepped aside, and the feelings we now have for each other are much stronger than before. I was originally planning on going in April 2010 to marry her, but she has begged me to come sooner, as she wants to see me sooner. I am now going in Dec to Beijing, just before Christmas, and we are going to be married.
I know that it will be winter, and cold there, but we have each other to stay warm, and I plan on taking full advantage of her offer to keep as close as possible for 2 weeks to stay warm lol.
Anyway, it's good to read all these stories, and it sounds like a few of you have gone through what I have in the past with North American women. Best of luck to all of you that are going to China to be married. I know that I am looking forward to it!!
RC