Don
It seems that we always founder on these sort of questions when we try to address them with logic and precision !!!
I had a long. long discussion with the (then) Manageress of the Baoding Times Agency about all this and I came to the conclusion that there was no real system in place to manage and monitor communications of Admired letters and cupid notes with the sort of precision that the CHNLove "rules" suggest.
The specific lady at the Agency whose job it was to send admired mails (amongst other duties) virtually was left to her own judgement what to do and who to send admirer mails to.
She had no real system...just did 15 per day to meet her target.
If any of the client Ladies came in to the Office and gave them a hard time because they were not getting mail from Men..they just banged out a few admirer letters in hope !!!
I have pleasant memories of being in the Office helping about 25 of their clients re-write their intros to make them more relevant and interesting for Western men..was a good couple of days
WillyI think you had better "fess up"...that little child has a suspiciously strong resemblance to you LOL !!!!
DavidE