Mark , Shaun is right . When chinese Family get together , you must wait it out , because you are not part of their Family just yet . They feel , they do not need to tell you ... for some reason I don't understand sometimes . Do give her some more time . I guess you havn't been around during Chinese New Year yet . Some might wait two week's then . If you like her , don't give up so easy .
Arnold, after my experience, Chinese New Year is always going to be the blackest time of the year for me. There is no way I am going to be anywhere near the place in February. Too many unhappy memories. Anyhow I am back to Zhuhai in a couple of weeks. I am taking my daughter this time. She is a really sweet kid and I enjoy her company. So no matter what happens with my relationship, we're going to have a blast.
I agree with you about time passing. As a general rule, when you are with a Western girl, if they don't ring every day it's because their feelings are cooling toward you. By contrast, and as a general rule, if you don't hear from your Chinese girl for a week or two, it might mean nothing at all. Her feelings will not have changed one way or the other. It should be noted that she might not have had any feelings for you in the first place, but if she did have feelings for you, then they will not have cooled. In fact, if you can stay relaxed, and not go bananas during that time (which I have to confess, I have come close to doing), you can come out of these gaps looking better than you did before.
