Hello Seagull
I just read your post . I think a lot of people is concerned about their first trip in other countries . Usually speaking , most foreigners will choose two weeks for their meeting , but someone only have three days or one week ,that depends on different situations .
If your meeting is successful , you may stay longer in Wuhan and shorter in Shanghai or other cities you want to visit , but if both of you feel not comfortable, you may stay longer in other cities . I think the plan is flexible , but some plans is also necessary . You may book five or seven nights firstly in Wuhan and then change depends on the situation .
You study mandarin and you also want to visit other scenic spots in China , I think that is available . During my working period , there are many foreigners I guide to visit other places when their meeting is not successful . But seagull , you may consider which places do you want to visit this time , that will help you make some plans , such as where do you want to visit in Shanghai ? Or whether you want to visit Great Wall ,forbidden city or other scenic spots in Beijing ? Of course , if you have any other ideas , you can tell me , I would love to exchange more with you and give you some suggestions .
As for the translator , if both of you can communicate with each other easily , you may hire the translator shortly , If not , I think a true translator will be useful for your communication , yes, I think the cost is not expensive in Wuhan .
Speaking of the time both you will spend together , I think both of you would better talk about the exact time before you come to China .But a plan may not be able to keep up with changes, if both of you feel comfortable , I think the lady will get more days off . But sometimes that depends on different jobs the ladies do .
Lastly , I meet a lot of foreigners who bring a gift to the ladies for their first meeting , including different kinds of gift and the special things from their own hometown ,but someone doesn't bring any gift at all . If you want to send a gift to your lady , you may talk to her and understand what's her favorite .
Anyway , please take care of your first trip and if you have any other questions or meet some problems in China ,especially in Beijing , please tell me . I will take my efforts to help you . Wish you have a nice and safe trip in China ! Enjoy yourself ! :heart: