She is using heavy words now like love you and our love and so on. She even ends one of her letters with Thinking of you with love.
Any advice from the experienced guys?
Yoshii
Maybe I am the designated cynic on this site
, you will notice that I am always looking under stones for scorpions
Your question about "love" is a very good one, and is always a bit unsettling when it comes after only a few EMF's. After all, our Western view of love is that it slowly arrives as we get to know somebody better and better through a reasonably long contact time...face-to-face.
The idea that someone can speak about "being in love" after a few letters and without the benefit of any face-to-face cantact was, for me somewhat bizarre !!
I have reached my own conclusion, for what its worth, that our Chinese Ladies dont mean what we think they do when they write like this.
I usually substitute "fond of" in my mind when I read the words "love" in an EMF...because that is what I think they mean...and I may be totally off target here, maybe other Bros have other opinions.
I have tried writing on a number of occasions to different women about the cultural significance of the word "love" to a western Man, for instance, we would only tell someone we loved them if we had already decided that we want to marry them. I never seemed to get this message across !!!
So, in summary, what you are seeing is not unique to you and your Lady/Ladies
...but also in summary, I dont think they are saying "I love you and I want to marry you". I believe it is a signal that they regard you as something very special and want to progres the relationship.
Maybe its a cultural thing, perhaps some of the married Bros will have a comment about it
DavidE