China Romance
General Discussion and Useful Links => The Campfire => Topic started by: Josh Markley on October 13, 2009, 04:38:13 pm
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Hey guys look who found his way back. Think about you guys all the time. Things have been rough so i think i needed to return to be with my brothers from a different mother. Hope you all are doing well.
Josh
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Hey Josh, welcome back. Been wondering where you were.
Shaun
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Yeah man welcome back...the shark was asking me about you?:icon_biggrin:
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Ah, welcome back Josh. It's good to see your goofy grin again. We've been waiting patiently for your return.
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Good to have you back mate.:icon_cheesygrin:
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Thanks Guys for the nice welcome.
Well, I have been working two jobs to provide my girl with the money she needs, But she has returned to work. I was unable to send enough money to sustain her way of life and mine, and I am helping my old man keep his house out of foreclosure. So It has put alot of pressure on my girl to find a job. Life happens none of us can help it. My girl and I have alot of issues communicating since my return, that and the money issue has put a strain on our relationship. Oh boy does my girl have a temper. I remember in a thread someone had said something about tire kickers, now i feel that way.
My girl and I have a date of Nov 2nd for her tourist Visa. She was impatient and did not want to wait for the fiance process. I know the failure rate of tourist visa's. She is also aware. So we have discussed things if she is not accepted she will return to her hometown and open her own business. So I still hope for a miracle, at the same time if she does not recieve her visa it will be better off for the both of us. She will have her own business like she always talked about having, and I dont have the pressure of making a million dollars a year. I would never make her happy while she was here. When I met her parents friends, they were all very wealthy business men. She lived that life style. I am broken hearted now but hey there are thousands of girls to know in China.
I have met two very nice chinese girls here in Kansas City. One is married I have hung out with her and her husband. Very nice people. The other girl contacted me on QQ and is a student here. She is a very nice girl and have taken her out a few times. She is really looking for a foriegn mate just a friend. So I am back at Chnlove.
Rob tell Shark i am alive and kicking.
-Josh
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Hey Josh welcome back. Good to know your still alive.
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Hey guys look who found his way back. Think about you guys all the time. Things have been rough so i think i needed to return to be with my brothers from a different mother. Hope you all are doing well.
Josh
Good to hear Josh. I am glad you are back.
It's a pity to hear that it didn't work out, or doesn't seem to be working out.
When you have hopes that are as wonderful as the ones you have, to see them disappointed, is something that is hard to bear.
I hope things work out for you, one way or another.
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Nice to see you back and keeping a positive attitude Josh. Sometimes these things are are just not meant to be, I'm sure the right one is out there for you as long as you keep looking :)
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Welcome back to the Brotherhood . When are you coming to LA again , on your way to China?
Your ex - GF sounds like the one Girl we read about at Facebook , that was looking for a Man ... but had to make at least $ 200,000 a year ( I think ) . Haha
Jo - Ma , wish you better luck the second time around . Oh by the Way ... you buy the Beer next time !!! :icon_cheesygrin:
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Welcome back here, Josh, glad to see you're fine.
I also wish you'll find your suitable one soon ;)
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Ha ha ha I saw that $200,000 year girl as well. Lol.
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Hiya Jo-ma...welcome back. We missed you!
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Someone put a large nail in one of his shoes this time. :icon_cheesygrin:
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Shaun , is that while he is wearing it ?:-/
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Arnold,
Yes, you can go between the toes to avoid injury. I find it is better if you do one shoe because they whine too much if you do both shoes. Be sure that the computer is within reach so that he can keep in communication with us.
Note: If they break away from the nail then the next time it is through the shoe and the foot. This tends to slow them down a little.
Shaun
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whoa, whoa how bout i just stick around i dont think i want a whole in my shoe or my feet.
Well I dont need a girl who is looking at me as a means to an end. If i wanted that i can find a blood sucking asian woman in the united states. Oh Shuan thanks for throwing my name in the ring with Niks friend. I think seagull was first in line, haha.
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Josh,
The nail in the shoe was to keep you close to the computer. You said before you disappeared for a while that you were going to work a lot. And about throwing your name in I didn't see seagulls response when I wrote it so I just laid low on that issue.
Glad you're back.
Shaun
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Arnold I will but the beers hehe
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Jo-Ma , I would not Mind meeting again in LA . But this time , I will not let you go on ... unless you bring back some Good News :icon_cheesygrin::icon_cheesygrin:
So , we must Drink / Toast to your Success ones more . Haha
Take care Buddy and find yourself a Lady that loves you for who you are not your Money .:@
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Well I think she really does love me. I mean we still talk a couple times a week. She always tells me she is excited about her interview for her tourist visa. We actually discussed what was going to happen if she recieved her visa, she told me she wants to come and be with me a month. She wants to live a happy and free life while she is with me. So I asked her if we were going to try to work out our relationship while she was here. She has alot of friends in her ear, she has told me they dont think i am able to take care of her. So i am beginning to think its not her, its her friends. So I am really at a loss about what is going to happen. So I have learned a lesson. When having a contact with a chinese women I cant just talk about how good of a man i am, and how i am an attentive lover or how i want to have a wonderful family. I have talked about more practical things in life. I have talked about money, and careers. I am not allowing these women to know me now. I have completly closed up. So If i see you Arnold it is because i have found the girl who opened me up and really wanted to know me. The girl who shared her heart with me first. I am willing to spend the time and money for someone i love and KNOW i have a future with. Not another girl who looks at me as a means to an end. So we will feiern the new girl.